raggedick

Anonymous asked:

The word Gypsy has double meanings. I'm sure most of people on tumblr who use it don't mean it as the slur.

golden-zephyr-deactivated201401 answered:

Pro tip: NEVER tell a person to whom a pejorative slur is applied that it has “double meanings”.

The word Gypsy DOES NOT have “double meanings”. The word is a slur.

Period.

It started out as a slur, it was used to brand, hang, rape, murder, sterilize, and oppress millions of my people and it is STILL USED THAT WAY TODAY.

This sticky-sweet privileged white argument is so frustrating. You continually erase my people from the Holocaust and from their current suffering because it’s inconvenient to you. I don’t care if you didn’t know that the word “Gypsy” was a slur - you do now - and the correct response is NEVER to tell someone to whom a pejorative word has been applied that it’s not always meant that way.

Any supposed “second meaning” has been applied BY WHITE PEOPLE FOR THEIR OWN ENDS. They have taken the nice and pretty things from MY ethnicity and have decided they don’t WANT the rest. So, when they are a “Gypsy” it’s just living without rules, in a caravan, with nice flowy skirts and long hair, smoking weed, wearing no shoes, being half naked in a field …

and the only people who do this are white girls in America.

Why?

Because if you pretended to be a Gypsy in Europe, you’d be treated like one, and honestly you girls would run screaming at the first skinhead you saw.

Oh, but wait, when they come after you for your ethnicity you can tell them it has a double meaning, right? That you don’t really mean Gypsy, you just mean hipster boho bubblegum bullshit that has NOTHING AT ALL to do with a real ethnicity.

Do you realize how offensive your words are? Probably not, or you wouldn’t have sent them. At least I hope you wouldn’t.

Most people on Tumblr who use the word perhaps don’t realize the full extent of the word “Gypsy” - just how horrible a word it is - but when they find out? I get bullshit like this in my inbox every day.

Every day I hear: Oh but I didn’t mean it as a slur, so it isn’t one!! Intent isn’t magical. Intent doesn’t erase the decades of pain and hurt and death contained in a word. You can put a pig in a dress and call it a lady, but it’s just a fucking pig in a dress.

You can’t change the meaning of a slur JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. It doesn’t work that way.

You do the same with Native communities here - you take their headdresses and their bead work and their stories and twist them into ugly caricatures and you coral them behind fences so you don’t have to deal with the reality of a word and a horror that YOU created.

In fact, mostly you’re the same people, playing dress up as “injuns” and “Gyppos” because your lives are so boring and white and bland. If you had to live even one day as a real Gypsy you wouldn’t want the epithet any longer.

Stop with your excuses and your privilege. It makes me feel sick.

Gypsy is a slur. Period. And some white girl claiming otherwise doesn’t change a damn thing.

makilikesflowers:

grrspit:

Reblogging for all the points made.

This!!!!

What’s a slur? 😂

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